Call Us
Family Law

What Happens if One Parent gets Infected with Coronavirus

Co-parenting is hard but has become more difficult since Covid-19 has spread throughout our community. Unfortunately, there is no precedent to help lead parents through this process, and there is no legal standard to help guide the courts either.

Although we are in uncharted waters, thankfully, many factors can help guide your decisions during this time. There are many experienced attorneys to help manage any legal issues that may arise should you need the help.

Like a fire drill, you want to have a plan in place. While you may not run an actual drill, having an agreement written down is better than nothing. We hope this article helps make that plan more robust and more sensible, or if already infected, helps you navigate the next steps.

How should you plan for an infection?

As mentioned, having a formal plan in place can help any disagreements in the heat of the moment. If can also help remind each other of any specifics the other might forget. Consider it a COVID game plan. We would always suggest taking the professional‘s word when it comes to Coronavirus.

Some families have decided that the children go to a designated person or location during a parent’s illness. Sometimes the other parent doesn’t have the ability or resources to care for the children full-time, so it’s essential to consider another responsible family member or a mutual friend.

Each parent should have their affairs listed, understood, and easy to find. You want to make the situation, mostly for the children, as seamless and stress-free as possible. If a parent happens to pass away during this time, this exercise can make a world of difference for the family moving forward.

What if you still live together?

If you haven’t had the chance to separate households yet, this could pose problems if both parents aren’t on board with a plan. Children aren’t as conscionable, and it can be hard to manage a clear COVID separation with them.

If they’re old enough to understand the circumstances, keeping a division is more likely. If the child(ren) is young and requires both parents from time to time, a more thoughtful plan is needed. Find ways to handle dinner time, e-learning needs, and other partnered events.

Along with extended distancing and masks at all times, you should consider testing and how that may fit into your efforts. If you’re here in Colorado, there are plenty of places to get free testing and get results back within a couple of days. Our families in the Bay Area of California, here are some resources for you.

Use text, video, and phone to communicate within the home. While this helps with the virus, it also allows you to record the conversations you are having. This is good for both parents and helps them to play nice knowing things may be scrutinized in the future.

If the divorce process has not started and has just be decided on, it is important that you attempt to keep a good relationship with your spouse. Should things get crazy the court is unable to intervene at the moment unless it’s an emergency situation.

Our Calculators

We’re not fans of surprises and we suspect you aren’t either. We built these divorce calculators just for you, so you know what to expect every step of the way.

What happens if your ex-spouse has tested positive for coronavirus?

If the divorce process has begun or a divorce decree has been entered, and a parenting plan has been ordered from the court, both parents must follow the parenting plan and all other orders.

It is recommended that both parents try to follow the parenting plan to the best of their abilities. Still, understandably, if your ex-spouse does contract coronavirus, it may become necessary to deviate from the plan.

Hopefully, neither you nor your ex-spouse will be subjected to such a terrible experience. If you find yourself in this situation, try to work with your ex-spouse to come up with a temporary schedule to ensure that your children are safe.

The primary thing to remember is that there needs to be a good reason to stop following the court’s parenting orders. If you think that it is essential to withhold parenting time because your ex is infected, make sure to communicate your concerns and plans with your ex-spouse.

Understandably, if your ex-spouse is infected, you will not want your child to have visitation. However, if you stop that parenting time, the courts may still see the withholding of parenting time as a deliberate violation of the parenting orders. Thus, it is important to make sure that you do agree or if an agreement cannot be reached that you save your conversations with your ex-spouse documenting the reasons that parenting time has been withheld.

If your ex-spouse further disagrees with the modification of the parenting plan temporarily, it may become necessary to ask the court to restrict the other spouses’ parenting time.  To limit a parent’s parenting time, the court requires the parent to show that the child is in imminent physical or emotional danger if he/she continues to spend time with the other parent.

However, if you are thinking about restricting your ex-spouse’s parenting time, try to remember that courts want both parents to continue to follow the previous parenting plan, so they will attempt to find an alternative solution unless the standard can be met.

Therefore, it is not enough to guess whether the other spouse has tested positive or worry that your ex-spouse may test positive because he/she has continued to work as a necessary employee. The situation needs to be serious.

In other words, it requires one parent to show that the child is in emotional or physical danger if the parenting time continues. Therefore, there needs to be something specific to meet this standard. Judges will not look kindly upon a very generalized concern for the child’s safety or general fear that the child got Coronavirus.

With this in mind, it is paramount to know that it is still unknown how a judge will rule and decide these issues during this time. Judges may differ when determining whether an infected parent may meet the endangerment standard to restrict the ex-spouse’s parenting time and may find that the uninfected spouse should not be withholding parenting time.

Suppose your ex-spouse has tested positive and want to prevent your child from spending time with the infected spouse. In that case, there are several factors that you may want to consider to make sure you are doing the right thing and, if necessary, to show a court how important it is to change the parenting time while your ex-spouse is recovering.

Although this is not an exclusive list, the following factors may be helpful to consider:

  • Is there someone living with the infected parent who is at a greater risk to test positive?
  • Is your child at a greater risk of testing positive?
  • Has the child already been exposed to the parent who has tested positive?
  • Has the child been exposed to other sources?
  • Are there any grandparents or members of the vulnerable population living with either parent? If the child has been exposed to the parent with Covid-19, will the child potentially expose his/her grandmother if he comes back to your house?
  • Does the exposed parent live in an area with a large outbreak?
  • Does the exposed parent live in an area that has carefully followed social distancing requirements?
  • Is the other parent too sick to care for the child?

Our Attorneys Are Ready To Listen

Our experienced family law attorneys have the knowledge, resources, and dedication to prepare your case and protect your interests to find the best possible outcome.

What happens if you test positive for coronavirus?

Coronavirus rights if you test positive for Coronavirus? Do you get to see your children?

The bottom line, you are still entitled to see your children, and your ex-spouse needs to follow the parenting plan even if you are infected. However, that may not be something that will be best for your children. While there is no easy answer, it is essential to be flexible during this stressful time and recognize how important it is to keep your child or children safe.

Although you may want to spend time with your children, it is crucial to think reasonably if you are infected. Therefore it is necessary to try and remain understanding and reasonable with the other parent. It may also benefit your relationship with your ex-spouse and children to develop an alternative parenting plan or think up alternative ways to co-parent while you are recovering; some ideas may include participation in video visits or phone calls with your children.

As the crisis expands, it doesn’t make any sense to be hostile. As the saying goes, there is no point in rearranging the chairs on the Titanic while it sinks.

Remember, there are no right answers at this time, and courts are not quite sure how to react. If you need help because either you or your ex-spouse has acquired the virus, talk to an attorney who can give you additional information.

However, if you cannot afford an attorney during this difficult time, you can still represent yourself. Although many courts are closed currently, hearings have continued via video court proceedings when there are emergency custody issues or a need for protection orders.

Although you are no longer able to file at the clerk’s office, the courts are still accepting mail and may have additional ways to file on their websites.

Good luck and stay safe. Click here for more COVID articles.

Modern Family Law

Modern Family Law’s team of experienced family law attorneys takes a compassionate approach to the practice of family law. Using innovative technology to create an effective and efficient process for our clientele, our attorneys approach each case as a collective effort to find the best long-term solutions for each family. Our attorneys currently practice in Colorado, California, and Texas. Click the following link to view all of our family law locations. For more information please give us a call or fill out a short form online to sign up for a free consultation today! Let us make a positive difference in your life.

Posted May 12, 2020

Related Resources


From Grandparent To Guardian: A Deep Dive…

Grandparents have always been the bedrock of many families, embodying wisdom, traditions, and unwavering love. Their role often transcends the simple joys of spoiling…


LGBTQ Adoption: Building Families Beyond Boundaries

In today’s evolving society, the age-old definition of family is expanding with warmth and acceptance. The rise of LGBTQ adoption stands as a poignant…

Common Law

Divorce Procedures In Common Law Marriages

A prevalent misconception exists that merely cohabiting for a long duration automatically results in a common-law marriage. However, the truth is far from this…


Free Consultation