Divorce is one of the most life-altering experiences a family can face. While no statistic can capture the personal pain of separation, the numbers tell a sobering story. From financial setbacks to emotional tolls, the realities of divorce are often harsher than most expect.
Below are 10 shocking truths about divorce, numbers that every family should know when navigating this difficult chapter.
While the exact percentage shifts depending on the study, around 45–50% of first marriages in the U.S. end in divorce[1]. That means nearly one in two couples who walk down the aisle won’t stay together.
50%
of first marriages end in divorce
67%
of second marriages fail
The average cost of a divorce ranges from $15,000 to $20,000 — and that’s before factoring in property division, child custody disputes, or spousal support battles[2].
💡 Want to know how costs add up? Read our guide: How Much Does a Simple Divorce Cost?
About 40% of children in the U.S. will experience their parents’ divorce before the age of 18[3]. Research shows these children are at greater risk of academic struggles and emotional challenges.
Children of divorced parents are twice as likely to experience behavioral issues compared to children from intact families.
*Source: American Psychological Association*
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Divorce often devastates household finances. Studies show that women’s income drops by an average of 41% after divorce, compared to a 27% decline for men[4].
Divorced adults are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety, and higher stress levels than their married counterparts[5]. In fact, divorced people are about 20% more likely to experience major depression.
Nearly 1 in 4 divorces cite domestic violence or controlling behavior as a contributing factor[6].
If safety is a concern, learn more from domestic violence expert Jennifer Gardella.
*Sources: GAO, Census Bureau*
Research indicates that divorced individuals have higher rates of chronic health conditions and may lose years of life expectancy compared to married individuals[7]. Stress, financial pressure, and emotional strain all play a role.
Property division is often one of the most heated parts of divorce. In states like Texas, courts split assets under community property law, while Washington follows equitable distribution principles.
The average length of a marriage before divorce is just under 8 years[8]. Many couples don’t even make it to a decade.
Here’s the silver lining: Studies show that 84% of divorced individuals report greater happiness within two years of separation[9].
While divorce can be emotionally and financially challenging, most people report that the process eventually leads to freedom, growth, and happiness.
The statistics around divorce are stark, but they also provide clarity. Knowing the numbers helps families prepare, protect themselves, and move forward with confidence.
If these numbers feel overwhelming, you’re not alone. Modern Family Law helps families navigate these realities with clarity, compassion, and strategy, rather than fear.
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